Sex at 50+
Tips on Enjoying Sex
Most seniors are sexually active and enjoying sex well into their 80s. However, in the last decade, HIV cases have risen an alarming 500 percent among people over 50. These facts and much more are carefully explained and documented in an educational brochure, Sex and Seniors: Enjoying Safe Sex, produced by Beth Abraham Family of Health Services.
Do diseases or health problems affect sexual functioning? In most cases, the answer is no. Below are some misconceptions surrounding the issue:
● Heart Disease: people have a fear that engaging in sexual activity can cause a heart attack. The fact is that an active sex life may actually decrease the risk of a future attack.
● Diabetes can cause impotence, but once the disease is diagnosed and treated, sexual drive can be restored.
● Stroke may interfere with sexual functioning, but in cases where it does, your doctor can oftentimes suggest ways to overcome the problem. It is unlikely that sexual activity will cause another stroke.
● Arthritis causes stiffness and pain in joints which can interfere with sexual activity and enjoyment. However, medications and therapies can overcome difficulties that may arise.
● Alcohol abuse is the most widespread cause of sexual problems.
● Smoking can cause impotence.
Are seniors at risk for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)? Yes! Some of the most common STDs include HIV/AIDS, syphilis, gonorrhea, Chlamydia, genital herpes and genital warts. By following some simple rules, you can help stop the spread of STDs:
● Have a frank conversation with your partner about previous sexual encounters. Both you and your partner should be tested for STDs before your first sexual contact and get treatment, if appropriate. Health centers provide free testing. Condoms must be used correctly every time. You have sex because you or your partner may be unaware that you are infected with an STD. Though effective, there is still a one to five percent failure rate even when using them.
●Using drugs and alcohol can impair your judgment and ability to use a condom properly.
●Abstinence means not having sexual relations with anyone and is the only way of guaranteeing that you won’t get an STD.
If you have any questions about health problems or medications affecting sexual functioning and prevention and treatment of STDs, speak to your doctor, nurse or healthcare professional.
If you would like to obtain a free copy of Sex and Seniors or for more information about Beth Abraham Family of Health Services, please call 1-888-Beth Abe (1-888-238-4423) or visit. www.bethabe.org or click on health care tips.
Beth Abraham Family of Health Services (HAFHS) is a national leader in providing and coordinating home and community-based long term care for the frail elderly, chronically ill and disabled adults throughout the New York metropolitan area. The network's continuing care services include residential health care, subacute medical care and rehabilitation, home care, HIV/AIDS home care, managed care plans, adult day health care and independent housing facilities for the elderly and disabled.